There are a lot of different strains of the same bacteria. The bacteria is getting into the environment from the food or human contact. The snakes immune system needs to be able to recognize the bacteria to fight it. You need to make sure to clean the entire setup every time they defecate, even the water bowl. Just don't touch them and you won't have any problems. Minimize your touching to just when you need to clean there environment and your troubles will end. Do not put any human products on their skin. That is probably why the belly scales fell off so quickly. Your girl friend is carrying around a nasty bug.