How to meet people...hmm well, imho...
Stop Looking.
When you stop looking at every possible male as a "possible male" and just enjoy life, it will hit you in the back of the head. Someone who is happy with themselves, and is doing what they love, not trying to impress anyone / looking for something, is the most attractive thing!
I agree with getting involved with things you love, like a local herp society etc. Doing things you love will introduce you to people who also love similar things. Whether it is more friends that share your interests and passions, or someone special, you can't go wrong