Is it wrong to express yourself...

[cecilbturtle]

None of which I'd ever act on though.

This leads me to believe that you wrote about physically hurting her. If that is the case then that is truly messed up and no you shouldn't make them public. You should go to your nearest shrink and get some help immediately!

If I totally misread that then as long as you are aware there can be consequences for putting that stuff out there then go for it. Think about it this way. Who is going to really want to be with the guy who puts all their dirty laundry out for all to know? Also, don't get caught up in a defamation of character suit.

[Raptor]

This leads me to believe that you wrote about physically hurting her. If that is the case then that is truly messed up and no you shouldn't make them public. You should go to your nearest shrink and get some help immediately!

If I totally misread that then as long as you are aware there can be consequences for putting that stuff out there then go for it. Think about it this way. Who is going to really want to be with the guy who puts all their dirty laundry out for all to know? Also, don't get caught up in a defamation of character suit.

Just because someone has violent thoughts doesn't mean that they should go to a shrink or are "totally messed up".

[cecilbturtle]

having violent thoughts and singing about them are different. I've been into martial arts and sports since I was a kid and i LOVE to fight. Is that messed up? Probably. Is it messed up to write a song about hurting somebody. You are GD right its messed up! Go talk to a professional or better yet, step on the mat with someone. Its fun, a good stress reliever and it's a great way to stay in shape! Now go hug someone you little rascal you


by the way, when I said I love to fight I meant on the mat. Just sayin...

[Raptor]

having violent thoughts and singing about them are different. I've been into martial arts and sports since I was a kid and i LOVE to fight. Is that messed up? Probably. Is it messed up to write a song about hurting somebody. You are GD right its messed up! Go talk to a professional or better yet, step on the mat with someone. Its fun, a good stress reliever and it's a great way to stay in shape! Now go hug someone you little rascal you


by the way, when I said I love to fight I meant on the mat. Just sayin...

I write short stories that are heavy on violence and are fairly graphic with said violence. Writing stories or songs is just another medium to vent. You fight, other people write.

[cecilbturtle]

Look, he asked for an opinion. I gave it to him. I didn't ask for one so I don't really care. Write all the stories you want. All I'm saying is if he specifically writes about PHYSICALLY hurting someone he is probably in a bad place and should talk to someone. He can get into a whole lot of trouble if he is threatening her in ANY way. No body wants that. I get that he hurts and is angry but putting into song that he wants to hurt someone is pretty darn (i'll say it again) messed up!


I dont even know that is what he did. If someone wrote anything about hurting me or my family in any way I would get the police involved.