Hey, TheWinWizard, there's no reason to be snappy. We all know that it won't bring anyone back, but if there WAS somehow someone responsible, attacking them would make us feel better. Can you not understand that? It's not pretty, or good, or right, but it's certainly something that would bring an immediate sense of gratification to me as well.
To the OP, I understand what you mean. My health is a piece of crap for reasons outside my control. I'm twenty, and I've had four moderate to major operations to try to treat my digestive issues, and have suffered from various psychiatric disorders since I was six. Because of this, I lost out on most of my childhood and teenage years, and had to grow up way to early. If there was someone responsible for my troubles, I'd want to make them suffer, even if it couldn't change anything.