Having been threw something similar with my SONI will tell you there will come a time when they ask or want to know why the other parnet gave up. My advise is let them figure it out on there own all my wife and I did was let him look at the letters and cas file and make up his own decision and well he got it eventually. Our situation was a little different but I hope this advise help you avoid the your not my dad syndrome I went threw
And now we are raising Ball Pythons and rats together and loving every minute of it. Congrats on the adoption and I am glad you stayed the course and won the battle sounds like she is in a much better place and your family is the better for it
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