Well.. I will give you my honest to to God answer..... It is the same thing I tell both of my pre-teen daughters and pound it into their heads.....

Beauty is not what you look like, but what is inside. I have dated women in my life that run as wide a variance as 6ft tall and 115 lbs, and 5ft tall and 160...... Was one more beautiful than the other.... Not really, they were both beautiful people with amazing personalities.

I understand that this thread is more meaning to discuss phsyical attraction and visual stimuli. That being said I just cant force my self to be attracted one of the "hot model types" if they have crappy attitudes and are just not nice people.

Take it for what you will, I learned a lesson early in life, I dated I probably should have married when I was younger, but my ego screwed that relationship up..... She was a biger girl, close to 6ft and not thin, but not heavy, very attactive. But I didnt stay with her because I thought I could find someone better looking... I have regretted that the rest of my life. We had something special we truly cared about one another and were best friends....That is what is truly beautiful

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Well.. I will give you my honest to to God answer..... It is the same thing I tell both of my pre-teen daughters and pound it into their heads.....

Beauty is not what you look like, but what is inside. I have dated women in my life that run as wide a variance as 6ft tall and 115 lbs, and 5ft tall and 160...... Was one more beautiful than the other.... Not really, they were both beautiful people with amazing personalities.

I understand that this thread is more meaning to discuss phsyical attraction and visual stimuli. That being said I just cant force my self to be attracted one of the "hot model types" if they have crappy attitudes and are just not nice people.

Take it for what you will, I learned a lesson early in life, I dated I probably should have married when I was younger, but my ego screwed that relationship up..... She was a biger girl, close to 6ft and not thin, but not heavy, very attactive. But I didnt stay with her because I thought I could find someone better looking... I have regretted that the rest of my life. We had something special we truly cared about one another and were best friends....That is what is truly beautiful