The 10-15% rule of thumb is for hatchlings and juveniles, not adult BP's.
We feed our males 1 small 60-80 gram rat every week and our females top out at about 120-130 gram rat every week. The females may occasionally get something that is slightly bigger, but never anything over 150 grams.
I have to completely disagree with you on this statement.
All of our animals get fed smaller meals on a weekly basis and it doesn't make any of them "jumpy" or always hungry. Besides a couple of animals in our collection that are always little jerks and don't like to be bothered at all, the rest of our collection is perfectly fine 99% of the time and aren't 'jumpy" or "sketchy" at all.
Now when it comes to feeding day all bets are off!