Vasiliki, I know how ur feelin. I am a user and member on quite a few herp sites, and i have been on some of them for over 8 years... ive earned some pretty funny infractions and have come to really dislike some of the members on certian sites even thou they may live 1000 miles away.But i still have met some really good life long type of friends cause of these sites too. Keep your head up and ur heart light!