Any man that comes into my life comes in with the understanding that a)I am a parent and that will ALWAYS come first, no questions asked and b) I will NOT be giving up any animals for anyone. Period. End of story. Tell him to get over it or take a hike. I'm all for compromise in relationships, the extent of my compromise is I wouldn't get any MORE reptiles. The ones I already have are my responsibility and are not like selling an old video game I'm bored with.