How do you get through ambivalence?

[Anatopism]

Mourn the loss. Something died. Then move on. You're alive. You're healthy. You're free. It's all about perspective. Pain is temporary.

I know, and thank you, especially for being blunt, as I need it sometimes. Starting to feel better already, now that a decision is made and over with.

There is a nice quote about pain in the book The Handmaid's Tale... something about forgetting what it ever felt like once it's gone.