You are, again, 100% wrong. She asked for advice. I have given mine. It is not the same as yours. This seems to only be a problem with YOU.
What's the guys name?
Is this even for real?
The excuses are poor, unacceptable to some. I've seen this exact scenario, even down to the trip to the hospital for a family member, played out many many times to the detriment of the buyer. Apparently you have not. Or you don't care. Or, you just don't get it.