A lower wattage bulb would work as well. I prefer lamp dimmers because you can dial them in to get the right temperatures.
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I would give her 2 weeks to herself, then try feeding again. 48 hours after she eats you can start handling again.
I would see if you can find a reptile specialty shop or rodent breeder to buy your feeders from... They will very likely be cheaper and of a higher quality.
I just noticed that you are in Florida... What part? I might know of a shop nearby.