i'm a girl, and yes this is what i was asking. taking someones word for it and then finding out that your male and "female" are actually two males...and you've witnessed lock after lock...obviously locking without sparring because that would be a pretty huge hint that she was actually a he. to be more precise, i'm asking if anyone has witnessed multiple locks in an accidental male to male pairing?
i am housing a female and male together after a month of QT but i was just worried that perhaps she is actually a male since i haven't had her probed yet and the person i got her from was pretty sketchy. i have witnessed no sparring and a couple of locks.