Is this wrong?

[pigfat]

Communication IS everything...and she won't communicate. The only thing she sI is that she is too busy to hang out this weekend...VERY immature. And she is 20 not 26.


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[Mike41793]

Communication IS everything...and she won't communicate. The only thing she sI is that she is too busy to hang out this weekend...VERY immature. And she is 20 not 26.


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I think you need to cut your losses with this one. If she cant handle the relationship now how is she gunna handle it when you become a cop? A police officer is a very respectable career, and im not trying to take anything away from that. But hows she gunna handle it when you get called in all hours of the nite and day, or on holidays and birthdays? Sounds to me like shes just not ready for that kinda relationship. Cops have like the highestbdivorce rate of all careers. My grandpa was a state cop for like 20 years and hes divorced lol. The good thing is he got to retire before the age of 50 and has lived off of his state police and USMC pensions since then.

[pigfat]

I know....I graduated with a degree in criminal justice but was working as a safety director and as soon as there was a position open she was encouraging me to apply, so really I can blame this on her lol jk jk. It's not lookin good right now but I want to say thank you to everyone who has pitched in on this subject. It means a lot that you care the slightest to read this and give your thoughts.


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[BallsUnlimited]

Goodluck with everything man I wish you the best. Been down that road before so I know what your going through. All I can say is put "yourself" first as you are doing the right thing bettering your life. If shes not onboard an wants to act like a high school drama queen then so be it. You tried an she made no effort an thats selfish

[Bellatrix_LeSnake]

[QUOTE=pigfat;1862409]It's not lookin good right now but I want to say thank you to everyone who has pitched in on this subject.

If you do end up calling it off, don't think of it negatively as not looking good. Instead, look at it as another chance to find the person who is actually right for you and will support your career choices.

[pigfat]

Just a little update. She apologized for acting poorly and overreacting. So we get through this weekend, I took her to a movie and then afterwards she broke up with me...guess she just wanted one more date.


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[youbeyouibei]

That sucks and sorry to hear that. On the flip side, I think you're way better off without her if that's how she chooses to handle things and if she can't hack it with the current level of stress, let alone when things get rough down the road. Good luck to ya', man.

[pigfat]

That sucks and sorry to hear that. On the flip side, I think you're way better off without her if that's how she chooses to handle things and if she can't hack it with the current level of stress, let alone when things get rough down the road. Good luck to ya', man.

Gracias me amigo. It kinda sucks but I guess with time it will be okay...just two years gone....but that's less stress to deal with.


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[KMG]

Now that was a classy move! Cut that one loose, you can do better. You are going to need a special girl to put up with your job and your snakes. Lol! I'm glad I found one and don't have to do the dating thing. Now if I could just get her sold on letting me get a red tail for Christmas.

Keep your head up, but beware of badge bunnies. The uniform does strange things to women and most the time its not good.

Good luck!

[youbeyouibei]

Now that was a classy move! Cut that one loose, you can do better. You are going to need a special girl to put up with your job and your snakes. Lol! I'm glad I found one and don't have to do the dating thing. Now if I could just get her sold on letting me get a red tail for Christmas.

Keep your head up, but beware of badge bunnies. The uniform does strange things to women and most the time its not good.

Good luck!

AMEN! to that! Like my sergeant told me when I first started and was on field training with him: two things that will ruin a guys' career in this field: a whiskey glass and a woman's...derriere. Hang in there, man & good luck to ya'!