I think you could just feel uncomfortable? It's difficult to explain, you might feel like it came across that you were leading him on in some tiny way when you actually didn't but with people saying you come across as flirty when you're actually being friendly may make you think otherwise...if that makes any sense?

I know how you feel in that respect. I have a lot of guy friends, I find girls hard to get along with. Therefore, according to every girl that sees me with a guy, I'm a flirty dirty sleeparound!

A couple of months ago I went for a drink with a friend... Her partners step-father was at the pub. She says that what happened is a "rite of passage" in order to be his friend. Don't think so. We were chatting, I was being friendly, he had an interest in snakes. Next thing you know the guy's grabbed me from behind, yanked and bent me backwards and started attempting to french kiss me?! apparently I have "no choice, everybody has to do it".

After eventually managing to wrench myself free, I left. I kept it to myself for a month, because I felt so so so guilty. Almost like I had cheated on Grant, and I didn't want him to be angry and I was really scared. When I told him he was calm and collected and said it was okay. Then told me later on if he ever sees the bloke he's going to lay him out.

You don't have anything to feel guilty about, you didn't do anything. I think if you'd have gone home in no shorts he might have been a bit more concerned