@ angllady2
Thank you, seriously. For awhile I actually started believing what he was saying was true, but nipped that in the butt after I got over my pity party. I realized that throughout most of the relationship he really never had anything positive to say to me. I think I was just blind to not notice earlier.

I talked to the apartment manager earlier when I first got the cat and she agreed until the end of this month. She was very adamant about it, and I will try talking to her again. A huge problem is that I am not from this area and my knowledge of shelters i limited. I called several and really can't afford the fees. I have coworkers asking around to see if anybody wants a cat, so I am hoping that one of them gets a yes. I am taking my BP, Kaa, to the vet tomorrow for his first checkup and physical to see how he is doing and am planning to ask the Vet if he may know of any alternatives. I am hoping that will work out for me.

I think most of my frustration is coming from the fact that she put me in this situation to begin with. Friends don't do that to friends.

@ dragonsong93

Thank you! I didn't even think of play sand! I'll have to go nab some tomorrow from walkmart!