yes it will just take some time dont pressure yourself like everyone else said and it will come naturally my wife was terrified of them and she let me get 1 and then 2 and now im up to 9 and getting another tomorrow so it takes time like we all said she still wont hold them unless she is watching them while i clean tubs and as soon as it moves she yelling at me to get it lol but its all good. good luck on getting your first snake post pictures as soon as you get it