This will be my 3rd Tinley. I don't know about the VIP tickets as far as getting in early, but if by "reception" you mean the auction/dinner on Saturday evening, that's open to everyone.
I'm down for getting together! In March I ended up sitting with 3 other couples at the auction, one of which being Aaron and Hana of iHerp fame! They are awesome! Aaron brought some of his home-brews and a good time was had by all.
ReptileGuy - if you've just started eating meat, bacon is where you need to start my friend!