I have been letting mine thaw a bit in the room maybe 1-2 hours. Then I use a ziplock bag and warm tap water. The water close to a boil may have brought the temperature up too much even though you let it rest. My male on F/T I can just dangle in by the tail and it barley crosses the the entrance to the tank before it's attacked. I tried the walking trick on the new female but had just gotten her so today will be try 2. I had to laugh though with this description because of the detail! Is she doesn't hit quick I will try the timid approach since I just tried walking the first time.![]()