Casey, I think it would be appropriate for you to give a long winded version of your side of the story, and a public apology is definitely in order. It's a little sad that it had to get this bad to get your attention. The fact that your first response wasn't an apology and explanation but rather a very short demand for the conversation between you and the OP to go private is a little disturbing. I sincerely hope that any future dealings you may have with the OP are civil because you must keep in mind that you are under some pretty heavy scrutiny at this time.
Anyway, looking forward to your side Casey, and an apology for Stina.