I would say dont worry about the red spot if it isnt raw or bleeding, it will go away if she quits messing with it. I would reccomend not handling her for about a week or so. Most BPs are angels, but a bit skittish. They can learn, with regular gentle handling, that nothing is going to hurt them. Some even seem to enjoy being handled after a while. I would say there would be nothing wrong with trying to feed her on sunday. Nothing wrong (usually) with feeding them any time they want to be fed! LOL!