Strange behaviour while soaking

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They appear to be knowledgeable about it.

This is the same Vet that put mineral oil on your snake to get rid of mites...that is not a testament to their reptile knowledge.

the temp is warm to luke warm to my touch.

If it's warm to your touch, it's too hot for your snake. You have to start thinking terms of them being cold blooded.

Personally I would be getting a second opinion if not a new vet.

True Dat!

Yea, if it were up to me, I would just leave her alone for 7-10 days and then try to feed her a small hopper and see if she will take it.

Probably the best thing you can do for this animal. I urge you to this.