If she had worms or something treating them would usually cause them to be defecated out. Then you would know if that was the issue. It is weird that she has mites and he doesn't. I am willing to bet they may show up on him again. I would buy some provent a mite to treat the enclosure, can't go wrong with it. Snakes especially when smaller use their food very effeciently. If she does have parasites it would make me wonder if she was imported. I know they can get them here as well, but imports regularly come with parasites. I would try and get as much info about her as I could. Any breeder worth their salt keeps records on feeds and sheds of their hatchlings. Keep us updated, hope everything turns out well.
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