the female normals are temporarily in a 20 gallon glass tank with hot and cool hides, a UTH, plastic plants and a soaking/water dish. temps are 75 on the cool end and 85 on the hot end. they feed on baby mice just fine in a separate tub.
the spider male in question is in a plastic tub about the same size as the tank, same set up. temps range from 78-90. he will not eat and hasn't eaten for me these two weeks.