I had a friend who had the same issue, and it's obviously very difficult. He actually ended up rewiring his dad's car so that you had to turn a switch under the seat before the ignition would turn on. it's totally a hillbilly solution but it worked!

Of course, few of us will be able to give actual advice, but we can sympathize and hope everything works out for the best!

My parents live in europe so i really don't need to deal with them much . Hey! Send your dad on a trip to Europe!