I don't think anyone was lecturing you, we all just wanted to help and make sure you and your BP are happy. I think some people read your question and click right on "reply" to get you an answer. No harm no foul. We realize you did your research but you obviously had to do more or you wouldn't have had another question. Not to lecture just want you to enjoy your BP as we enjoy ours, that's all. Please be sure and post some more pics of your new girl as soon as you get a chance.