Sorry that you are going through this. It sucks. Im going through one as well. Mine, not so mutual. You didnt mention kids so Im assuming there arent any ? If there arent, just remember you two agreed upon this for a reason. Its SO easy to slip back and try to reconcile later when it gets lonely. Im not saying that doesnt work but again, you agreed upon this divorce for a reason. If you dont wont to make it work, dont try to be best friends right now. You need to distance or it will only make it harder.
just my .02
Just saw that we are neighbors .. if you need a good attorney I can give mine's name. Should be easy since its mutual.