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    Re: Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.spooky View Post
    im in my upper 30's. but im still ILL (not sick).
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    Also have to take into consideration location and ethnic group. Words will have different meaning in different areas. I.e "Sick" could mean someone is ill or perverted, which is the main usage in my area. It could also mean that something is awesome.

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    Re: Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

    Evan: The fear comes from setting the goal too high. With relationships, as with love making, the journey counts more than the end result.

    Do not look beyond a pleasant conversation as the first step in a long process. If you can't get through that, then just move on. Let it build.

    Also, if you want to catch fish, you have to bait the hook. Appearance and demeaner count but don't try to be something you're not.

    Women love the pursuit as much as men. Being around women attracts more women.

    Enjoy your youth.

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    Re: Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

    If you go to Www.menshealth.com they have a section on dating ect. and alot of the articles are interviews from everyday people off the street. not gonna lie I go on the occasionally and check it out, it seems useful, then after i read it i ask my female friends if certain things are true or would work, usually they agree

    Also, do not call a girl "shawty", no self respecting woman will respond to that. lol. (I hate when I hear guys say that)
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    be yourself. no one likes someone who constantly pretends to be something there not.

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    Re: Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

    Quote Originally Posted by snake lab View Post
    Ok heres my advice. When you go up to a girl, under no circumstance do you open with hey ya wanna see my snake. Now since thats out of the way its easy. Girls your age dont care about what you have to say. They care about what you think of them, just talk about them and you got it made. Just make sure noone with a cell phone camera is around if you do get rejected or else it will be all over youtube. Thank god there wasnt youtube in 1993. I would have been screwed hahahah.
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    Re: Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

    Well no luck, didn't even get to see her again. Be two weeks before I do. Oh well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by evan385 View Post
    Well no luck, didn't even get to see her again. Be two weeks before I do. Oh well.
    That means 2 weeks to practice on other chicks

    Do you happen to work somewhere with alot of women? I work in a nursing home so 95% of the nurses and CNA's are women. Not a big deal to talk with people you have to see everyday lol.
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    Re: Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

    Quote Originally Posted by Mike41793 View Post
    That means 2 weeks to practice on other chicks

    Do you happen to work somewhere with alot of women? I work in a nursing home so 95% of the nurses and CNA's are women. Not a big deal to talk with people you have to see everyday lol.
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    this is what you must do. you must practice your hunting skills on small game before hunting the ultimate prey...

    that almost sounded creepy... but you get the point.
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    I was/am the same way bro. If I didn't meet my gf in highschool (fyi 2 years going strong next month!) I would still be single I assure you. The only way I could ever talk to girls was via text or internet. I had/have 0 confidence and 0 self-esteem. I was never popular or anything. I mean in hs I did have tons of girls but nothing lasting more than a month or two and it all started over fbook. I forced myself to go to costa rica twice for 3 weeks each to gain the ability to talk to strangers and it helped quite a bit. But I still have trouble calling to make appointments or ask a question from a business or something. I work at an animal hospital so 99% of the people I work with are chicks....and I agree with above its super easy when your forced to talk to them and in reality....they won't bite! Being shut down is part of life...just move on. Lifes to short to waste time analyzing everything. Just do it. I love my gf to death but if we broke up for whatever reason the games back on and I'm not going to sit around and waste time being depressed about it. Start off small, talk to a girl at work...you don't need tk be attracted to her...its good practice and move up from there and before you know it you'll be go to go.

    Hope you figure it out bro!

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