Hmmm, it's so frustrating when the little suckers don't eat, and then you're wondering "Is it me? The environment? Are they uncomfortable? HOW DO I MAKE IT BETTER!?"
I always wait a week between failed feeding attempts. I am not by any means experienced in the area, but not eating for a week won't hurt her, and it will give her time to calm down if that's what she needs. I also don't handle unless they're eating with no problem, but that's just a personal policy, don't know if it's actually a necessary one.