Well i had a friend come over and take a look and he spent 5 minutes and was able to tell me that indeed Sir Chaos is Madame Chaos!! Ok so that explains alot.....So now my next question is should I change her name or just leave it? I swear the petstore swore me up and down he was a he....well i guess we now know. Doesn't make me love her any less! So hmmm any i should know about owning a female snake? Thanks all!!