time can be very different in the females. some go fast and some take forever. my female fire just laid her clutch yesterday 1/11/2012 and she was ultrasound late summer with very large follicles. I thought she would of had her clutch months ago. some of my other females who had smaller follicles when we ultrasounded them laid months before her. she had 7 eggs, 6 with good veins showing. so females can go thru their stages differently than others.
keep putting the male in and also take him out. when you give with time away from her and then put him back in, it will sometimes put interest back into him to breed. if you just leave him in with her, he could lose interest in her. and offer smaller food than what she normally eats. this might help, if she stops feeding, this is also a normal condition. some eat and some won't