I'd definately try waiting her out a little seeing If the ft trick may happen to work but if that doesn't I'd give her awhile and offer a live mouse weekly. Eventually she'll eat it. She wont starve. Even if she goes let's say 2 months it won't hurt her and you can go back to assisting. What I'm getting from this though is you want to stop assisting. So it may take just waiting her out. Observe and monitor weight of course but it won't hurt her.
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