You really don't need another male because you can breed the spider boy to 2 girls just fine. Last year was my first year and I only bred normal girls to get my feet wet. You can pick them up almost anywhere for really little money. This allows you to get a couple nice young female morphs to grow for the next couple years. We bought a bunch of female morphs early on in my collection, some of which will breed this season and more next season. Getting the normal breeder girls allows you to gain experience in breeding, incubation, hatchling care, etc. As Kinra said its addicting. 3 years ago we bought our first BP, now 51. Last year we had 33 babies from 4 clutches and this season if all the girls go this year we'll have 15 clutches. Good luck and have fun.