I was in a similar situation but I had dogs. I was with this person for 10 years. We both dragged our relationship out. Finally he told me he wanted me out. So I ended up at my mom's house. I couldn't take my dogs. That is and was heartbreaking for me. During this time he got his nosy new girlfriend to get a lawyer to issue me papers saying that if I didn't pick them up with in 10 days they would be considered abandoned by me. I still was in a situation that I couldn't get them. He knew and knows how I felt and feel about my animals. He just wanted and still wants to hurt me. He is a grudge holder. He don't like nobody.
I am married now and my husband and I bought a house. I have room for them now. I finally after years found out that he still had them. I was so afraid that he had given them to the pound. Anyway, I contacted him just to ask if I could see them and he said No! So I let it go. I still thank about them everyday. Only thing that gives me comfort is I know he is taking care of them.
I don't know how fond your boyfriend is of your snakes or if he takes care of them. If you are like me you were the main care giver at your place. Hopefully if that is the case when you get settled he will offer them to you. Everything is probably still pretty crazy for you now.
I wish you luck with your new beginning. Life is to short to be unhappy. I am so happy now. I never thought I would meet someone so wonderful to me. Don't go to far away from the forums. My doggie forum friends kept me sane when the ex and I split. I think the forum here when you have time will help you to
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