That sounds great! From time to time, while she is eating just randomly go up to her and just grab the bowl, it should help keep from being food aggressive. You have to do it while she's eating, just go grab while she's eating. As for the stick, show her the stick without moving it around and get her to come near it, perhaps by using a treat or something. When that works great, that she no longer worries about it and acts like it's not around, trying moving it around while continuing to give her treats. She should realize that the stick is not going to be used to hit her and that stick= treats.