Well i say let it slide. but instead try to talk with her and reconnect. its hard to always understand the choices of others especially when you arent in contact with them for many years. As you know I live 300+ miles from everything I have ever known in my life and I too feel as though i have become very disconnected from my friends and even my family; however if you were able to be good close friends before and you want that back just try having a conversation and/or building it back up. I can relate to the situation and I have rebuilt friendships that were once lost.
Losing a good friendship to the point it breaks down like this is a result of both parties involved. My best advice is not to place blame nor "call the person out" but try starting over. at this point it is water under the bridge and the choices that have been made can never be changed.
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