Thanks for all the replies. I probably will try talking to her when I figure out what I'm going to say. As far of lacks of funds, I don't see how it would have cost much more for her to invite me, since it was a pretty big wedding of about 75-100 guests judging by the pictures. There were 8 bridesmaids and 9 groomsmen...and I'm sure not lacking funds. And we live 25 minutes away from each other, max.