I wouldn't worry about offending anyone. We do all have to start somewhere. Like you I jumped the gun on my third snake purchase. I wanted a pastel female for my male spider and I ended up buying a Pastel Yellow Belly 50% het pied female with even seeing a picture. I got lucky and she is amazing but she certainly changed my plans.
You have a beautiful cinny pewter and there is a lot you can do with her. Good luck!
Thankyou i love here dearly shes my favorite female at the moment