horrible.....

[Raptor]

To me, it sounds like you've gone to the point of making another account and making this all sound resolved so the thread will die.

The responses you are giving to "each other" are too ... I dunno ... scripted? And it seems like someone who broke their arm WOULD NOT be able to text on a phone, nor be awake the night of and be able to type a lot on a phone. Seriously ... on sister's phone ... How do you know .... I just don't get it ...
Low signal in hospital ??? That doesn't happen in most areas.

Sorry, but I'm done here too. This is too fishy.

Not to mention, a guy like you have been describing wouldn't be "TERRIBLY AFRAID" of posting here. Really really really sounds like the same person, with the same grammar and the same sentence structure and the same blocks of text.

To be fair, texting is possible to do one handed. I've done it before, but it just takes a lot longer. With the hospital, it depends heavily on where you're at. Hospitals normally do have great reception, but there are areas where the infrastructure is designed to block cellphone signals. However, considering the two have the same ip, the point is moot.

[CatandDiallo]

There's no way that he's typing from his sister's phone or the hospital, since the IP that he posted from is identical to yours.

Time to 'fess up. What's really going on?

This seems to be proof that she needs a lot of help, and I'm not trying to say that in a mean way. It's just the truth.

Please, go seek help from a counselor/therapist/psychologist, or something of the sort. It seems like you really need it. It's nothing to be ashamed of, as I and (probably) many others here have seen ones in the past and maybe even in the present.

It'll be one of the best things you do to help yourself.

Over n' out.

[python_addict]

same IP address? wth? and no I didnt just make up another account his account was made a while ago thats not even possible how can it have the same IP address? hes here right now with me he used one of my emails and my laptop to create it over 2 months ago but he wasnt using my computer I wasnt even using my computer last night i am right now though I was at another hospital last night to be watched while I sleep and im still freaking here as i said before this thread should be over cuz Im gong to work things out with him and probably get back with him go on with your lives everyone

[python_addict]

Ok, Mr Spooky may not be everyone's favorite person right now but to come on here and start calling the members names is NOT going to work in your favor one bit..

Python_Addict... I think you should start studying some human psychology.

The jealousy, controlling nature, the sudden turn-around to Don Juan when he thinks he's lost you,,,, are all dangerous signs.

He seems to be extremely emotionally insecure, codependent, and quite possibly could escalate into different forms of abuse in the future.

Your feelings for him is making is hard for you to see this and analyze it. You have been given some great advice by some great people on here. I really think what you need to do is not be codependent yourself.

Be on your own for awhile. DO leave him and cut communication. Not for a few weeks. For a long enough time for you to stop thinking and worrying about this 24/7. Go out and have some fun but don't go looking for another guy or anything. Just take time for you.

Weigh everything without the distraction. If he truly loves you, is not what I see him to be, and if it is meant to be, he should allow you to do this and leave you alone.

If it were me in this situation, his actions, and then reactions, would creep me out so bad that he would lose any and all chances he ever had.

I dont want another guy every single person before him used me and left me they never lasted long i cant just go out and find another guy what if i end up in the same situation? I believe he trully does love me like i do him its extremely hard for me to be single if things dont go good ill just move away farther again and maybe that will help?

[Jessica Loesch]

lol not everyone is the same, not everyone will leave you, and I honestly am sick of the woe is me at this point. We tried to help ....

and same ip address can't be made up. You said it yourself, you want this thread to be over, so why don't we just close this thread for her since she can't be honest anymore :-/

[CatandDiallo]

its extremely hard for me to be single

This is exactly one of the dangerous things that me and a couple other people tried to tell you about. That is NOT. HEALTHY.

You're not the only one with a bad life. I have no family to turn to, either. My childhood was a mess and I'm still trying to deal with it.
However, I don't NEED to be in a relationship. I just happen to be in one.

You need to fix this before you can ever have any hopes of being in a healthy relationship.

I think it's quite clear that both of you have some major problems. You're just going to enable each other to keep on having those problems, and everything is just going to get worse.
Seriously worse.

You can't be in a relationship until you fix yourself.


PS: I've been used, cheated on, and dumped out of the blue (after a 2 1/2 year, serious relationship). That doesn't mean that just because that has happened to me, I have no hope in the male sex. There are GOOD guys out there. It's quite clear that the guy you have is not treating you right and the relationship is very, very unhealthy and you're heading down a dangerous road.

[Skittles1101]

Really people, I work for a police dept and see this all the time, she isn't leaving because of "I love him" syndrome. I'd stop posting things, since part of this sad condition is retaliation.

I wish you luck "Lacey" if this is a real post, I hope you don't end up like most of the women I talk to on a daily basis just like you...

[JLC]

same IP address? wth? and no I didnt just make up another account his account was made a while ago thats not even possible how can it have the same IP address? hes here right now with me he used one of my emails and my laptop to create it over 2 months ago but he wasnt using my computer I wasnt even using my computer last night i am right now though I was at another hospital last night to be watched while I sleep and im still freaking here as i said before this thread should be over cuz Im gong to work things out with him and probably get back with him go on with your lives everyone

It's clear the spied account was created some time ago and not done just for the sake of this thread. But it's also clear that in THIS thread, every single post made by python_addict and spied are from the same IP. Posts spread over several days...and multiple hospitals, apparently. Mmmm Hmmmm.

If you want to hang your laundry out in public and ask for advice on how to remove the stains, then people ARE going to judge. You didn't have to bring this game to a public forum. But you did. It's not going to just go away when you get tired of playing it.

I'm quite sure you are utterly mystified at all the matching IP's in this thread. But I can assure you, no one else is.

In the end....from OUR perspective, it's just a little internet forum. It's a forum dedicated to helping people take good care of their animals. And this thread is just a silly game someone decided to play.

From YOUR perspective though....something far more serious is going on, I suspect. It's your life, and this site is not equipped to fix whatever it is that's broken and drives you to play these sorts of games. I'm happy to help FROM PRIVATE, if you really want to try and fix anything.

[Xan Powers]

I have to say after reading the entire thread, I am left wondering why. Wilomn was on point as always.

[Raptor]

I suspect it all boils down to them wanting attention. I've seen it happen before.