horrible.....

[Stewart_Reptiles]

so this morning he said "its me or a few of your snakes"

That would be when I say it's the snakes, not because I value my animals more than I value my relationships however being together is not about silly ultimatum it's about compromises.

If HE tell you what you can have or do now what make you think it will stop to snakes, ask yourself that question.

He is basically threatening to leave you over snakes

I can tell you I am married to someone who does not like snakes well at list didn't when I brought up the idea of getting 1 (at the time it was one), we had already been married for several years and we simply talked about it, he was not excited about it but as long as he had nothing to do with it, he had no issue with it either. (Of course now I have 60 something )

Bottom line if it came down to it I would give up my animals for him however NEVER because of a threat.

Relationships are just not about threat they are about compromises, communication and supporting each other passion even if it is not yours.