yeah just give it time, what I did with mine is that (aside from leaving them alone during post "eatage" and shed cycle), I'd pick mine up almost every day. I started off with juts 15 min sessions then would increase gradually. And how much time you increase is all up to your snake and how comfortable it's becoming. And you'll be able to tell when it gets more comfortable, it'll start exploring a little more instead of just balling up in your hand, etc. good luck!