So I took them in to be probed today and they are pretty sure that the spider (thought to be female) is more than likely a male. Spider was clinching and moving all over, prob went in 5-6 scales. They were also saying they have never heard of a female spurring a male. So it is still kind of up in the air because the prob didnt go in very far. they are 80% sure its male. Only way to know for sure I guess is to put it in with a female this season and see if they lock?