I know what your feeling... I got a few that are just annoying when it comes to eating. Some times they want live, then some frozen, then others F/K, and sometimes wont even eat. Although my Cinnamon, bumble bee, spider, mojave M&FM are all great eaters... Some feedings they look at me wanting another (Happened today.). The pastels are picky, The normals are picky but during shed (The mojave and cinnamon eat during sheds). Im not a expert YET... But that bit of info may help alittle.