Annoyed with tank size debate...

[C&H Exotic Morphs]

Tell her that her bp is most likely stressed out and can't find a good place to hide lol.

I completely agree.
From what you are saying all the activity sounds like the snake may be stressed and trying to find somewhere it feels comfortable to hide.
Why not invite them to check out this forum that is dedicated to bp's; where there are alot of keepers with years and some even with decades of experience in keeping bp's.