Its always hard and everyone has a different outlet.
My wife and I have been together for over 20 years and we just turned 35.
When we argue and I need comfort.......... I pull out "Purple Horney"
2000 Suzuki SV650, with 97 horse and a dry weight of around 500 pound.
I know its not the same but in a guy world it is.
She screams like hell, runs like a striped ape, and is a blast to ride....................
Almost everything you want in a woman

Point is, it hurt and it prolly will for a while. You are young and there will be many heart-breaks. I know you dont want to hear that but when you find the right one you will know. All you can do till then is learn when to listen to your heart.

I miss my Marley Baby, she was my rock