I have 1 female Bee whose being a turd also, when it comes to feeding, the other female Bee will only take the asf's, while the male Bee is a chow houng on rat fuzzys already, go figure. I will be assisting the stubborn one with an asf crawler.

I would just be patient and keep offering every 5 days, if there is significant weight loss, then assist, hopefully you'll only have to do it once.