My bf was the same at first. Although he has had his hands full bc I've never bothered to ask permission. I'm bad like that.
They just kinda appear at my front door. For awhile I was telling him the stork was bringing them to me. His response to me having everyone. Bc the balls aren't my only addiction. Is that im responsible for everyone. And I am. So hey I do what I love. No problem!
But he does enjoy helping, and holding. He's still a sissy about getting one out of it's tub. But eh whatever.
Ps don't tell anyone but calypso is one of my favorites
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