Well the thing is, my mother in law is the one that invited her. My mother in law is technically the person renting the townhouse and we rent two rooms from her. (So we are not on the lease either but the landlord knows we are here)

She is not the kind of person you can sit down and talk with. I believe that my mother in law did have a sit down chat with her, which then led to said cousin making the list of things she wants done around the house.

Oh something else she did. The first week she was here, we had a family dinner at Olive Garden. Everything was peachy until she began talking with my sister in law about why she doesn't want to have kids. My sister in law and her husband have made the decision for their lives that they do not want kids....ever! We all respect their decision and we don't bring it up. This woman sits there at the table, in public, and starts grilling her about why she's not having kids and its natural to want kids. Why doesn't she want kids? Oh she will someday. You'll see. You are going to want kids. Its not natural not to want kids. I politely told her it was not good dinner conversation and she shut up. But my sister in law was really ticked about it.

Thankfully she is out of the house for now. I have the place to myself. I'm getting some snakes cleaned, planning out who's eating tomorrow. Might get some new pics of my leo. If this woman comes home and ruins my day by telling me to do things around the house, I think I might just explode.