my first bp was this bad, but now i feed all of them in their enclosures and they do fine. I know how the first time i got it and it wouldnt eat stressed me out but at the same time i didnt want it to be stressed out so i removed the prey and didnt try again for 5 days, eventually she ate and that was that...now most of my picky eaters are the best ones i have...when it comes to bps its just like fishing, patience is a virtue.