I know when I showed my husband that I loved him more than my snakes, he never said a word about how many reptiles I have ever again. Now I have snakes, lizards, and participate in falconry and wildlife rehab. Now, his only concern is that I don't spread myself too thin, now that I'm pregnant.

Sometimes marriage takes sacrifice. I know when we got married, I asked my hubby to limit some of his video game spending. Which he did. And I limited my reptile spending. Now we're about to buy a house and we're welcoming a new baby in August.

Point is, relationships do take work and if you do love each other, then you'll do the work. Is there something she spends a lot of money on? Something that you wish she'd limit? I think having her compromise on something would help your situation a bit. I don't think that's too much to ask of her.

I wish you both the best of luck. I hope you and your new wife have as much fun as my husband and I do.